101 Ways to Move Forward After a Midlife Divorce

Tip #19. Walk boldly and with confidence. Head up. Shoulders back. Long strides. Research shows that confidence is one of the most appealing characteristics of anyone, male or female. A midlife divorce makes us feel anything but confident. We often feel embarrassed and unworthy. Just remember, people are drawn to confidence and good humor. Confidence says, “I’m a good, worthwhile, self-reliant, optimistic person who has gifts to share with the world.” Confident people smile warmly and have an open heart. One of the best ways of building a self-assured, up-beat spirit is by how we “carry” ourselves physically. How we walk and talk mirrors how we feel about ourselves, and the more we display confidence, the more we will feel it in our heart. So I’m going to lift my chin, put my shoulders back and stride out today! Try it and let me know what happens!