R.A.D.I.C.A.L. Thoughts

"I think this is how we are supposed to be in the world --present and in awe. There is ecstacy in paying attention" ~Anne Lamott in Bird by Bird

Being aware of the moment is one of the keys to a vibrant life. When you think of the absolute miracle that is this present moment you can't help be awestruck and amazed. Think of your body this very moment -- regardless of the fact that we probably could all lose a few pounds. Think about how your body works. How your mind works as you are reading this blog, how your sense of smell and taste work as you enjoy your coffee. How your eyes work as you see the sunrise. Aren't those absolutely incredible miracles? The sad thing is we have grown so used to them and so accustomed to this miracle of life that we often miss it's everyday glory. And then add on the top of our inattention, our focus on our midlife divorce and we are suddenly not amazed at life, but we are full of fear and insecurity and anger and sadness. Those things are okay in their place, and we can see those things as an integral part of this amazing life, but let's make sure those things don't hide and cover the magnificence and majesty of the moment. It's only in being aware of life that we fully appreciate it. It's only in really seeing the beauty of the wildflowers and really feeling the touch of a friend that we can actually be amazed at life . Today, regardless of the fact that we are in the middle of recovering from the hurt and heartache of divorce, let's take time to pay attention to the miracle of the moment and be awed by it.

"Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now and don't get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. God will help you deal with whatever hard things come up when the time comes." ~ Matthew 6:34 (The Message)