R.A.D.I.C.A.L. Thoughts

"Keep out of ruts; a rut is something which if traveled in too much, becomes a ditch."
Arthur Giterman

During any time of pain, sadness, anger or fear it is easy to get in a rut. The more we dwell on the negatives of our situation, the more entrenched they become. Believe me, I understand that all through a divorce, there are plenty of things to be upset about. It seems like every day brings something that makes you unsteady, or angry or sad. Deal with whatever you are facing, but don't get stuck in a negative lifestyle. Try this: At this time of year, many religious groups are observing Lent. People choose to give up something. I decided to give up worry. So whenever something worrisome comes up, I immediately say a silent prayer to God about it. I ask for help, wisdom, peace and joy. I try to see the situation as something I can use to grow.
And remember, even though there are negatives, there are also many, many positives in our lives. If we have to get in a rut, lets get in the rut of seeing all the things we have to be thankful for, even now.

"The Lord is good. When trouble comes, he is the place to go!"
Nahum 1:7